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	<title>Kevin Frey</title>
	
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		<title>Changing Perceptions</title>
		<link>http://www.kfrey.com/2008/12/12/changing-perceptions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Dec 2008 05:12:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kevin</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Not the easiest thing in the world by any means, but I work on it a lot.
It&#8217;s almost certainly why I started writing.  It&#8217;s definitely why I quickly jump out of a conversation about software development (what I do and what I know) and into what your doing with your business and how your making [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not the easiest thing in the world by any means, but I work on it a lot.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s almost certainly why I started writing.  It&#8217;s definitely why I quickly jump out of a conversation about software development (what I do and what I know) and into what your doing with your business and how your making it happen.  Probably directly into the challenges you faced trying to make it happen.</p>
<p>People always have a very limited view of who you are.  It&#8217;s inevitable.  Take steps to start making those perceptions different than they are.  It&#8217;s as simple as engaging a person you don&#8217;t normally talk to in something completely unrelated with what you do on a daily basis.  Figure out what they are doing and what their challenges are.  It&#8217;s going to make you better.</p>
<p>Most importantly, always be listening.  You&#8217;ll start hearing things you don&#8217;t agree with all over the place.  Then you can take your shots about what people are missing, which is where you&#8217;ll make your mark.</p>
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		<title>Take it to the bank</title>
		<link>http://www.kfrey.com/2008/11/12/take-it-to-the-bank/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2008 05:19:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kevin</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I love to think about ways that banks could be better.&#160; It&#8217;s especially fun right now, while banks are folding left and right, and taking on government money. Small disclosure here, as I spent the first part of my career learning at a rather large bank, and took away invaluable experience.&#160; I loved it.&#160; BUT, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love to think about ways that banks could be better.&nbsp; It&#8217;s especially fun right now, while banks are folding left and right, and taking on government money. Small disclosure here, as I spent the first part of my career learning at a rather large bank, and took away invaluable experience.&nbsp; I loved it.&nbsp; BUT, don&#8217;t love the parts of banking that scream opportunity.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s 3 things that my bank (and I&#8217;ll keep it annonomous) can and should do to make customer&#8217;s more happy and attract more of them:</p>
<p>1.&nbsp; Build more intelligence into online banking. I&#8217;ve talked about this before.&nbsp; It&#8217;s just a no brainer to me to use the online banking platform as your primary marketing/face of your organization.&nbsp; People going to branches all the time is a thing of the past. Invest capital accordingly.</p>
<p>2. Start streamlining loan processes.&nbsp; I should be able to do most things though the site above that gets me 95% of the way towards my loan needs before I even talk to anyone.&nbsp; Its not that hard.</p>
<p>3.&nbsp; Give me a 1 stop shop.&nbsp; I know this is difficult, but take one example.&nbsp; Most banks have investment arms that are just so out of tune with reality, that I can&#8217;t believe people even use them.&nbsp; It&#8217;s sick even thinking about paying $29.99 a trade or higher.&nbsp; Especially with how easy it is to move money electronically.&nbsp; So if you can&#8217;t compete, what&#8217;s the point?</p>
<p>Simple.&nbsp; Technology is your facilitator on all fronts. </p>
<p>Opportunity is absolutely all over the place right now in this business as customers are willing and READY to take their money elsewhere.</p>
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		<title>Choose Wisely</title>
		<link>http://www.kfrey.com/2008/10/16/choose-wisely/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2008 14:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kevin</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Market is going either up or down today, how should I play it?
Which direction should I turn for lunch, left, right, or straight? 
What color should I paint my walls, blue, red, orange, or magenta? 
More than anytime in your life, possibly in history, you are presented with choices in almost everything you do.  Its [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<address>Market is going either up or down today, how should I play it?</address>
<address>Which direction should I turn for lunch, left, right, or straight? </address>
<address>What color should I paint my walls, blue, red, orange, or magenta? </address>
<p>More than anytime in your life, possibly in history, you are presented with choices in almost everything you do.  Its no different in business.  Customers are more squirrely than ever.  They want the latest thing yesterday and fads pass in an instant.</p>
<p>So how do you mitigate this choice risk?  Make small, marked decisions and don&#8217;t anticipate wildly far off into the future.  This sort of goes along with my views on  <a href="http://www.kfrey.com/2008/09/25/happy-path/">&#8220;Happy Path&#8221;</a> development, but I think it goes deeper into business fundamentals.</p>
<p>Lay the groundwork for future business growth, but don&#8217;t build it out fully until the need is there.  If you THINK you are going to have a nice niche in another space with what you&#8217;re doing now, great.  Get revenue first, analyze your business metrics and whether it still makes sense, THEN start to tap into what might be in that other space.</p>
<p>Customers have choice, and its tough to forecast what they will choose tomorrow, much less next year.  Choice is also a behavior., and behavior&#8217;s are hard to change.  So swim downstream by building incrementally and don&#8217;t anticipate years into the future.  Whether your involved in a startup or work for a company, lay the groundwork for accomplishing the future, but be patient, smart and incremental in tackling things you think might be successful.</p>
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		<title>Developing</title>
		<link>http://www.kfrey.com/2008/10/09/developing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Oct 2008 00:29:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kevin</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are sitting back, learning, and trying to figure out how your going to make money on the flip side of this broken market your just silly.  Oh and if you haven&#8217;t bled out at least a little money then you suck.
I picked an awesome time to wratchet up my investing/trading habits.  More fun [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are sitting back, learning, and trying to figure out how your going to make money on the flip side of this broken market your just silly.  Oh and if you haven&#8217;t bled out at least a little money then you suck.</p>
<p>I picked an awesome time to wratchet up my investing/trading habits.  More fun to come.</p>
<p>My glass is still half full.</p>
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		<title>Skills, and Perceived Limitations</title>
		<link>http://www.kfrey.com/2008/10/01/skills-and-perceived-limitations/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 21:21:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kevin</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;What do you do?&#8221;
Nothing wrong with the question at all, but I immediately find it irrelevant to the overall make up of who I am.  Not to mention what I can accomplish. You should too.
Corporations, heck even smaller companies, all do one thing to you immediately.  Place a skill set label on you and immediately [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;What do you do?&#8221;</p>
<p>Nothing wrong with the question at all, but I immediately find it irrelevant to the overall make up of who I am.  Not to mention what I can accomplish. You should too.</p>
<p>Corporations, heck even smaller companies, all do one thing to you immediately.  Place a skill set label on you and immediately draw up what you CANNOT do. You write software? Well, you sure as sh@# can&#8217;t talk to customers or perspective clients. You handle customer issues/account problems, no WAY you have enough intellect to know how AWESOME and MAGICAL writing software is. You manage projects? It is physically impossible to understand the sheer VELOCITY of accrual-based accounting.  The list goes on and on.</p>
<p>This is no good. Its a fundamental flaw.  Lets all agree to throw these perceived limitations out the door.</p>
<p>My reasoning is simple. They&#8217;re silly.  For example, I understand how to read a balance sheet.  I invest my money in the market diligently. I network in the local community. I follow local and national companies to see where and how they are gaining ground in the market.  I look at business models to see if there is something there that is interesting or different. Yet by day, all I can do is write software and manage the technical side of a product.</p>
<p>My point here is not to brag at all about what I can do.  Not at all.  Hell, that&#8217;s really hard to do because I&#8217;m not all that smart. It&#8217;s to start looking at yourself with the ridiculous skill set that you bring to the table.  Just because you haven&#8217;t sold products doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t.  Not having tried something is not equal to not being able to do it.  <strong>STOP FOLLOWING ALONG WITH THESE PERCEIVED LIMITATIONS ON WHAT YOU CAN DO. </strong></p>
<p>The faster we start to dispel these limitations, the quicker we all become more competitive in the marketplace.  I want to work with an army of skill-diverse, smart, empowered, employees working WITH me. Not ones with super specific skill set worried more about office politics than the end goals of the business.</p>
<p>So start believing in yourself and your skill set.  There is more there than you think.</p>
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		<title>Happy Path</title>
		<link>http://www.kfrey.com/2008/09/25/happy-path/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 13:37:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kevin</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I talk about being simple a lot.  I like software to be simple.  It&#8217;s not as hard when you keep it that way.  That&#8217;s important for a lot of reasons, but for me the most important thing is relating how that software is going to put dollars in your pocket.
The single most overlooked aspect of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I talk about being simple a <a href="http://www.kfrey.com/2008/08/26/how-to-get-there/">lot</a>.  I like software to be simple.  It&#8217;s not as hard when you keep it that way.  That&#8217;s important for a lot of reasons, but for me the most important thing is relating how that software is going to put dollars in your pocket.</p>
<p>The single most overlooked aspect of simplicity in software development is the concept of a &#8220;happy path&#8221;.  Look around, as tons of companies are doing it.  They&#8217;ll call it <a class="zem_slink" title="Agile software development" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Agile_software_development">agile development</a>, or some other silly buzzword, but in its simplest form, its nothing more than coming up with a happy path for how the customer will want to use your product.  Non-software people in your business will understand that and get engaged at a different level.</p>
<p>How does Joe Customer accomplish the problem your trying to solve with your software?  That&#8217;s it.  Go build that.  Get that done.  Stop getting hung up on implementing things that don&#8217;t matter.  Bite off that simple niche and build it with a limited feature set.  You&#8217;ll know when your done building if you need to add a few things here and there to make it work right.  Those few things will have a MUCH smaller development time and complexity curve.  Not to mention it can be offloaded easier because the &#8220;guts&#8221; are there and you can inject people with less domain knowledge (code monkeys) into the mix because you&#8217;ve really defined the &#8220;domain&#8221;.</p>
<p>Most software projects would just be better off re-written in a year or two anyway because of the speed of the tools evolving around it.  So instead of designing to write large complex systems, stay simple.  Build your first happy path and release it, and if it doesn&#8217;t solve your problem (and you&#8217;ll know because people won&#8217;t pay for it), bolt on another happy path and continue to build that way.</p>
<p>Simple is hard to do, but when done right keeps you moving at the speed of the competition around you.  Happy path software development will help you accomplish simple.</p>
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		<title>Power Of Two</title>
		<link>http://www.kfrey.com/2008/09/16/power-of-two/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 15:23:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kevin</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I am probably the farthest thing from a political person you can find on the planet.  I try to follow as much as I can, but I will be the first to admit that I keep elections at arms length. I don&#8217;t know why I&#8217;m like this.  I take a super keen interest in all [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am probably the farthest thing from a <a class="zem_slink" title="Politics of the United States" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Politics_of_the_United_States">political</a> person you can find on the planet.  I try to follow as much as I can, but I will be the first to admit that I keep elections <a class="zem_slink" title="Arm's length principle" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arm%27s_length_principle">at arms length</a>. I don&#8217;t know why I&#8217;m like this.  I take a super keen interest in all things financial, and usually care immensely about my personal bottom line.  Which is why I should be more involved in the candidates and their policy stances.</p>
<p>So here we are with just a couple of months until for the presidential election and I find myself grossly unprepared.  There is still some time for me to sort things out, but it&#8217;s unlikely I&#8217;ll fully get there.  I can already see the writing on the wall for this.  BOTH candidates are standing on firm footing, and promising tons of change.</p>
<p>Education is the name of the game in politics, and following the issues especially with the media spin and just limitless nature of people having a voice on the web, is tough.  So with my money, when I get into situations like this where filters are broken and EVERYONE has an opinion, I typically fall back on some sort of intelligence quotient.  I like to interact with smart people and get ideas from them, and help me see angles I don&#8217;t.  I would like to think that both candidates have some decent level of intelligence, but I can see where one camp really has the edge when it comes to this.  So that&#8217;s probably where I&#8217;m leaning with my vote.  When all else is equal, I like smart.</p>
<p>Just explaining where my mind will be in November if I can&#8217;t figure out where these two candidates REALLY stand, which is likely because that&#8217;s what politics is all about.  <a class="zem_slink" title="Smoke and mirrors" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Smoke_and_mirrors">Smoke and mirrors</a>.</p>
<p>A <strong>LOT</strong> of people would disagree with this logic and I&#8217;m OK with that.  Just tell me why I am wrong.</p>
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		<title>Switching Gears</title>
		<link>http://www.kfrey.com/2008/09/11/switching-gears/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2008 13:53:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve wrote about adding randomness to your routine here. Its amazing what it will add to your creativity. In that light, I figured why not delve into a follow up on a slightly similar theme.  It&#8217;s about dealing with adversity, and the challenges of things that will never go away.
Look at it as a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve wrote about adding randomness to your routine <a href="http://www.kfrey.com/2008/05/16/be-random/">here</a>. Its amazing what it will add to your creativity. In that light, I figured why not delve into a follow up on a slightly similar theme.  It&#8217;s about dealing with adversity, and the challenges of things that will never go away.</p>
<p>Look at it as a constant.  There are things in life that are going to try and knock you off track. Those phone calls you get where your stomach turns over a bit.  That deadline that is looming at work, but your stuck because you can&#8217;t get anyone to help you over the hump.  That project that just isn&#8217;t what your interested in, so you procrastinate.  These things will be there <strong>NO MATTER WHAT</strong>.  </p>
<p>So what do you do in the face of turmoil?  Meet it head on.  Have that hard conversation.  Stay level headed and <strong>ALWAYS</strong> step back and analyze before jumping rationally into a decision or argument.  Its something I&#8217;m currently working on.  I have always had a tendency to act irrationally, but step back and go, &#8220;why did I do or say it that? I could have done it better&#8221;.  Well, now I&#8217;m into action.  </p>
<p>I love the churn of chaos more than most people, just because I understand things aren&#8217;t perfect.  As much as you think so and so (insert person here) is living the dream, they aren&#8217;t.  Their problems are just a different set than yours.</p>
<p>So switch your gears and learn to deal with a bit of chaos.  It&#8217;s <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chaos_theory">everywhere</a>.</p>
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		<title>How to Get There</title>
		<link>http://www.kfrey.com/2008/08/26/how-to-get-there/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Aug 2008 14:04:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Direction. Inspiration. Momentum.
People that know me know that I like to boil things down to their simplest aspects.  It might be because I&#8217;m slow or not quite as smart as the rest of us out there, but that&#8217;s not the point.  Direction, inspiration, and motivation as I see it, are the three things I need [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Direction. Inspiration. Momentum.</strong></p>
<p>People that know me know that I like to boil things down to their simplest aspects.  It might be because I&#8217;m slow or not quite as smart as the rest of us out there, but that&#8217;s not the point.  Direction, inspiration, and motivation as I see it, are the three things I need everyday to succeed.  You might disagree, and want to talk about being prepared and planning and all the rest of the things people tend to focus on.   To me, that&#8217;s missing the forest for the trees.  To clarify, here is a bit about each point.</p>
<p>The first aspect, Direction, is fairly simple.  There is no middle when you are working regardless of whether its for you or for someone else.  Business (and life for that matter) is full of choices.  You need to meet those choices head on, pick a direction and start moving.  The beauty in this strategy is that you can ALWAYS redirect yourself at a later point to adjust.  Your not just &#8220;stuck&#8221; going down a path.  Picking a direction just trains you to get moving.  The importance of this can&#8217;t be overlooked.</p>
<p>Inspiration is another straightforward thing, albeit a bit tougher to define.  We all need good reasons to get things done.  For me its more than good pay, although that is of utmost importance to make sure it is in line.  There needs to be someone or something getting you excited about what you are doing.  You might be making a widget that 1 person in the world will use, but if you FEEL inspired to make that widget then it will be made with extreme intensity and care.  Inspiration is around every corner and can be simple as a conversation with someone, or it can be as complex as complete this project and you might have a monetary bonus involved.  Finding ways to inspire should be on your list of things to accomplish if you want to be a leader instead of a follower.</p>
<p>Momentum is the final piece of the puzzle for me.  There are lots of reasons why I save this for last but it all really comes down to a single aspect.  Once you&#8217;ve picked your direction and gotten inspired, completing tasks will &#8220;feel&#8221; easier.  And with each completed item, you&#8217;ll get more and more excited seeing that finish line getting closer and closer.  It&#8217;s infectious.  It&#8217;s the part of the puzzle that when you look at your watch you can&#8217;t believe that 5 hours have passed.  That&#8217;s momentum.  Complete disregard for other things and serene focus.</p>
<p>In my mind, all three of these items need the other&#8217;s to succeed.  It&#8217;s not easy either.  Its work to get the first going, put the second in place, and then follow up with the third, but getting them to work together will all but seal the deal in a successful project.</p>
<p>So contact me. Talk to me about why I&#8217;m wrong.  Who knows, you might pick a side, find some encouragement, and start getting things done at an alarming rate.</p>
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		<title>Do You Really LIKE it?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If this question isn&#8217;t the most popular of all time, it has to be close: &#8220;How is your job going?&#8221;.
Inevitably the kosher answer to this question is, &#8220;It&#8217;s going good&#8221;.
Rarely do you get the outlier event of a person telling you how much they LOVE what they are doing.  And if they do tell you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If this question isn&#8217;t the most popular of all time, it has to be close: <em>&#8220;How is your job going?&#8221;</em>.</p>
<p>Inevitably the kosher answer to this question is, <em>&#8220;It&#8217;s going good&#8221;</em>.</p>
<p>Rarely do you get the outlier event of a person telling you how much they <strong>LOVE</strong> what they are doing.  And if they do tell you that, they probably are a bit disillusioned about what they are doing and their impact outside of their 4 walls.  (Don&#8217;t get me wrong here, there are people that are in this camp that are making a difference. They are also higher burnout candidates. People that will be crashing hard in several years.).  A bit more often you will get the other side of the coin.  It&#8217;s the people that tell you they really are having a hard time with their job.  They don&#8217;t like it for a myriad of reasons.</p>
<p>The boring <em>&#8220;It&#8217;s going good&#8221;</em> is something I try to avoid.  I&#8217;m always taking a side with such a question. Incidentally, it&#8217;s probably why my friends think I am a bit TOO opinionated.  <strong>Having an opinion is interesting. Being in the middle is easy.</strong></p>
<p>So back to my central point.  If you are in the middle ask yourself <em>&#8220;why?&#8221;</em>.  What is it about your job that you find incredibly interesting.  What is it you DON&#8217;T like.</p>
<p>There is a really easy barometer for this if you have a hard time sorting those two things out. Do you easily forget details about aspects of your job?  Those are probably the things you don&#8217;t like.  The things you have to CONSTANTLY remind yourself of.  Write that stuff down and keep a list of it.  Don&#8217;t worry you probably already do. You have reminders set up to tell yourself to do it because you won&#8217;t naturally want or REMEMBER to.  That will make up your list of things to look for as negatives in your next career move.</p>
<p>This is just some quick and simple personal career and goal planning advice that I try to follow. It can really help immensely, because making career decisions is incredibly hard on either side of the <em>&#8220;How is your job going?&#8221; </em>question.  Being armed with REAL QUALITATIVE information will be fruitful.</p>
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